Developing good habits is the basic of personal development and growth. Everything we do is the result of a habit that was previously taught to us. Unfortunately, not all the habits that we have are good, that’s why we are constantly trying to improve.
The following is a list of 30 practical habits that can make a huge difference in your life.
You should treat this list as a reference, and implement just one habit per month. This way you will have the time to fully absorb each of them, while still seeing significant improvements each month.
Health habits
- Exercise 30 minutes every day. Especially if you don’t do much movement while working, it’s essential that you get some daily exercise. 30 minutes every day are the minimum recommended for optimal health.
- Eat breakfast every day. Breakfast is the more important meal of the day, yet so many people skip it. Personally, I like to eat a couple of toasts in the morning along with a fruit beverage.
- Sleep 8 hours. Sleep deprivation is never a good idea. You may think that you are gaining time by sleeping less, when in reality you are only gaining stress and tiredness. 8 hours are a good number of hours for most people, along with an optional 20 minutes nap after lunch.
- Avoid snacking between meals. Snacking between meals is the best way to gain weight. If you are hungry, eat something concrete. Otherwise don’t. Update: for clarification, I mean don’t eat junk food between meals, but eating real food it’s ok.
- Eat five portions of fruits and vegetables every day. Our body and brain loves getting vegetables and fruit, so I highly recommend eating as much of them as possible. Five portions is the dose that’s usually recommended by many health associations.
- Eat fish. Fish is rich of omega 3 and other healthy elements. At least one meal per week of fish should be enough for getting all these nutrients.
- Drink one glass of water when you wake up. When you wake up, your body is dehydrated and needs liquid. Make the habit of drinking one glass of water after you wake up in the morning. Also, drink more during the day.
- Avoid soda. Soda is often one of the most unhealthy beverage you can find. Limit your consumption of soda as much as possible and you’re body will be grateful for that.
- Keep your body clean. I don’t advise spending your day in front of the mirror, but a minimum of personal care does never hurt.
- If you smoke, stop it. There’s no reason to smoke anymore, and quitting is easy.
- If you drink, stop it. Same as above. Don’t think that alcohol will solve your problems. It never does. The only exception is one glass of wine per day during meals.
- Take the stairs. This is just a hack that forces you to do a minimum of exercise. Instead of taking the elevator, take the stairs.
Productivity habits
- Use an inbox system. Make the habit of keeping track of all the ideas and things that comes to mind. You can use a notebook to do this, and then sync everything on your computer.
- Prioritize. If you have a list of things to do, where do you start? One way is to prioritize your list. If you are in doubt, ask yourself: “If I could only accomplish one thing today, what would it be?”
- Plan, but not too much. Planning is important, and you should decide in advance what you are going to do today or this week. However, planning for more than a few weeks is usually inefficient, so I would not worry too much about that.
- Wake up early. Waking up early in the morning is a great way to gain extra time. I personally like to wake up at 5 am, so that by 9 am I have already accomplished what otherwise would have taken me many days..
- Check your email only twice per day. Email can easily become an addiction, but it’s usually unnecessary to check it every 10 minutes. Make an effort and check your email only once or twice per day, see if the world will still rotate as before after you try this.
- Eliminate unimportant tasks. Being busy all day does not mean you are doing important stuff. Eliminate every activity that’s not important, and focus on what really matters.
- Clean off your desk and room. Having a clear room and desk is important to maintain focus and creativity.
- Automate. There are a lot of tasks that you need to perform every day or every week. Try to automate them as much as possible.
- Set strict deadlines. When you do something, decide in advance when you’re going to stop. There’s a rule that states that you will fulfill all the time you have available for completing a task, so make an habit of setting strict deadlines for maximizing your productivity.
- Take one day off per week. Instead of working every day, take one day off per week (for example sunday) where you are not going to turn on your computer. Use that time for doing recreational activities like going for a walk.
Personal Development habits
- Read 1 book per week. Reading is a good way to keep your brain active. With just 30 minutes per day you should be able to read one book per week, or more than 50 books per year.
- Solve puzzles. Quizzes, word games, etc. are all good ways to exercise your brain.
- Think positively. You are what you think, all the time.
- Make fast decisions. Instead of thinking for one hour wherever you are going to do something, make your decisions as fast as possible (usually less than 1 minute).
- Wait before buying. Waiting 48 hours before buying anything is a tremendous money saver, try it.
- Meditate 30 minutes per day. A great way to gain clearness and peace is through meditation. 30 minutes are not a lot, but enough to get you started with meditation.
Career habits
- Start a blog. Blogging is one of the best way to put your word out. It doesn’t have to be around a specific topic, even a personal blog will do.
- Build a portfolio. If your job is creating stuff, building a portfolio is a great way to show what you are capable of. You can also contribute stuff for free if that applies to your work.
What do you think? What are the habits that changed your life?
Posted on March 19 2010
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I’m just gonna go make 8 hrs a day sleep a consistent habit. Terrible having 5 to 6 hours each day.
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Hey Daniel, yes that’s terrible indeed. That should be your first priority.
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Oscar,
I love this post. I’m sure I do a good amount of these already, but just by adding a few to the list I’m sure I could create some dramatic changes in my life.
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Hey Srinivas, yes each of those is very powerful. I have still to implement many of them myself, but those are my target anyway.
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Hey Oscar,
I think the key is making all these changes as you characterized them – habits. It doesn’t help to only work out occasionally, sleep 8 hours when it’s convenient etc
Like you, when I implement changes in my life, I shake up my whole routine so these new changes become habits and stick with me.
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Hey Sid, yes you’re right. When I wrote this post I was thinking at habits that could be coexist together, otherwise you would have to choose which one to implement and which not.
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I agree. This list is simple and practical. I am going to print it out and put it on my fridge for the next month. I loved a recent post from Sid that talks about a good day beginning with a good first 15 minutes – if I can get the first 15 minutes of my day started well, the rest more easily flows.
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Awesome insight Oscar.
I practice most of your tips. I’ve bumped up the meditation to 60 minutes a day. A 30 minute session morning and night. I notice more things, which enables me to be more productive while enjoying the ride.
Meditation and at least 30 minutes of exercise would be #1 and #1a on my list.
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Hey Ryan, those list are not in particular order, although many have may have more importance than others.
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I wonder whether creating new habits to replace old is really the answer?
Why not, instead, consider being more flexible and able to break out of habits more quickly.
I’d refer you to the work of psychologist Professor Ben Fletcher and his colleagues on habit breaking and the benefits of that.
“I have developed what is called a DO SOMETHING DIFFERENT (DSD) technique to facilitate change (basically changes in the persons’ behavioural flexibility are used to lever changes of mind and the greater deployment of willpower and effort).”
http://psydb.herts.ac.uk/staff_list/FMPro?-db=staff_list_email&-format=recorddetail.html&-lay=details&-sortfield=surname&-max=2147483647&-recid=33595&-findall
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Hi Pete and thanks for your comment. I agree that being flexible is very important and being able to switch from one habit to another very quickly is a nice skill to develop. But I still think most of the habits I listed here are not a replacement for something else, but rather a way of living perhaps. Maybe the ones under productivity can be more subjective.
Oscar
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A great list you have here Oscar. I do most of these already and they all have made a big difference to my life (especially regular exercise). One I need to get back in the habit of doing regularly is meditating. I love it when I do it and feel so great afterwards but somehow let it go by the wayside. Also I am vegetarian so don’t eat fish but do take veggie frinedly omega 3 to get my quota of that.
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Hey Jen, talking about meditation, it will be my next 30 days challenge because I want to get back into the habit too.
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The Weekly Review has been a key habit. I know that Excersising daily is sure to spawn off many positive new habits. I would recommend this one to anyone who does not know where to begin personal development!
Great summary of many effective habits!
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Hey Darby, yes that’s an excellent advice. Thanks for your comment.
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This post was mentioned on Twitter by oscardelben: 30 Habits that Will Change your Life http://bit.ly/9bXtmm
Hey Oscar,
I’m a particular fan of waking up early and only checking email twice a day. Your experiment in waking up at 5am actually inspired me to do the same, well 6am actually. I love it! I get an incredible amount of work done, all before lunch. Thank you
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Hey Ben, I’m glad you did that too. I think I’m gonna post my results of that experiment today.
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I think i have sleep deprivation or insomnia. I do not recall sleeping for 8 hours. normally 4. I know it is bad but my mind is not at rest. I work 60 hours a week. I tried to think that if I am doing not doing nothing for personal development that I am wasting my life away.
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Hey Renelda. Maybe meditation and giving up junk food, drinks, smoke wold help in your case. Also working 60 hours per week can be the source of a lot of stress.
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There is no reason to smoke anymore? Obviously you do not smoke a pipe.
Quitting is certainly easy enough. I feel no compulsion to smoke when I am on family vacations or I am sick.
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Never tried that tudza, but I think it’s not that healthy, right? Anyway, it depends on how much you smoke, and how much you (think) you need it.
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Health habits: Avoid snacking between meals.
This is the worst suggestion ever. It’s proven that eating between meals increases your metabolism, so it’s good to snack, but it really depends what your are snacking on, if it’s a jar of cookies, than probably better not to snack at all :)
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I wanted to add a note about this, but forgot at the end. You see, outside of america snacking between meals is very infrequent, and for a good reason. In my post I said eat something concrete because it’s ok to eat a sandwich or something real at any time of the day, the problem is when you snack with junk food. Maybe I should have been more clear about this.
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A student definitely need about 8 hours of sleep but after School, Job and self study you don’t really get enough time and then you do need entertainment.
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Hey Sudhir, I didn’t say it would have been easier, but it’s definitely possible. 8 hours are essential for most people, but if you are ok with less, good for you.
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Hey Oscar,
I just stumbled upon this post and i find it to be extremely useful. I am an engineering student and a lot of these habits could turn my life around 180 degrees. I am a smoker, I sleep around 3 to 5 hours a day, I never have breakfast and i also have poor planning schemes.The only thing i do is solve puzzles(since i am a computer engineer). I will start by doing the easy tasks, like having breakfast, and getting enough sleep. As for smoking, I have made a decision today that i am never smoking again, I just hope i stick to it. Developing good planning schemes may take some time but i am willing to give it a shot, that will definitely pay off. Again thanks for this nice post Oscar.
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Hey mostafa, definitely start with the sleep thing. Also congrats for quitting smoke, that could possibly the best decision you’ll ever make. Let me know how it goes and if you need help.
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Very nice post Oscar.
@Mostafa: if u wanna quit smoke easy just read the book Easyway to Stop Smoking by Allen Carr. I did it (from 2 packs/day) and a lot of friends too. Instantly. It’s great now. I can practice sport with pleasure, breath and think better. Good luck ;)
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awesome text, every single point is surely important to everyone.
congrats.
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Thanks for your comment Mauricio.
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thanks for the good habits. I’m starting tomorrow.
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Hey Brian, I hope that “tomorrow” was not ironic. Good luck :D
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Just discovered this blog and must say that I LOVE the tight, concrete/specific advices you just gave. Keep up the good work. Looking forward to reading the RSS :)
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Hey Sam89, thanks a lot for your feedback!
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Go to hell, Mom.
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Just what I was thinking
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It’s ok for me ;)
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Stumbled across this and remembered, after a bit of self doubt, you, though likely a very nice person, probably don’t actually know very much about success, or how everyone should achieve it. Should you actually be “advising” anyone? Should I listen because you posted a list on the tubes?
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That’s up to you, and what you mean by success. I usually write about what I know about., that’s why I don’t have a list for how to become a millionaire.
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Hi, very good post you made. Most of the things I already do luckily.
Only one point I really disagree with and that’s with eating fish. I do agree you need omega 3, but fish is about the unhealthiest choice to get it from. Are you aware that 100% of the fish in US streams is contaminated with Mercury? Mercury is a highly poisonous toxin. http://www.naturalnews.com/028284_fish_mercury.html
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Hey Tilia, yes I’m aware of that, and I take that issue seriously. I hope that you can get fish in the US that don’t come from those toxic sources.
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Sorry for the late reply on this. Fish everywhere are contaminated with mercury unfortunately, it’s not just a river thing, or an ocean thing. It’s global. Mercury is probably not the only poison in fish also, it’s only the most advertised. The fact that our fish is poisoned isn’t the only problem with fish. Our waters (and I mean global) are highly overfished. Breeding fish for consumption isn’t a good alternative either because those fish are fed with wild fish as their food so there is even more overfishing. I would promote not to eat fish at all. Today there are a lot of products with omega 3 added to it and there are organic products with it. Here is a page with more info on it: http://www.vegsoc.org/info/omega3.html
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Thanks for the reply. I wonder if it’s the same for fish grown in lakes.
Qué buen post. Tantas cosas que he dejado pasar. ¡Ha recapitular mi vida!
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Hi Oscar, that’s a great list! You’ve dome a great job at compiling so many important habits into one list. I could probably add some more, but I have actually already done that on my blog :-) (so I won’t repeat myself)
Thanks again for a great list!
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Thanks for your comment Anastasya
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One habit that changed my life was a new year’s resolution: In 2009, I will not turn down any more social invitations. And by 2010, I wasn’t lonely anymore. I have lots of new and intelligent friends. Definitely changed my life.
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Hey Christine, that’s very interesting, congrats!
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I have had a 10 oz glass of waster by my bed side and to drink down before my body temp changes from the sleep zone into awake and running all my conscious life. I have good skin… and more… hummmm
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Hey ilsa, that’s a good habit, isn’t it?
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Snacking is actually good for you.
The foods that folks choose to snack on, and the amounts of those foods people wind up eating? That’s the bad part.
Stop eating junk. Stop overeating. Easy to say, but either hard or uninteresting to actually do for most folks.
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Hey Dean, I replied to a previous comment about this. I agree that it’s good if you eat real food.
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Excellent list! I guess I knew some of them already, but receiving them in the form of a well thought of list will enforce them and drive me to follow them.
However, one point I am slightly dubious about. Devoting just 30 min a day and reading a book a week. Is it really possible?
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Hey Saurabh, there’s only one way to discover that ;)
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If you don’t mind, could you please share some techniques you follow? On an average, for a book that you find of an average grasping level, how many pages can you read an hour?
Please excuse such mathematical curiosity, I am an engineer by heart and study. :)
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I average 1 page per minute, so with 30 pages per day I can read 210 pages. Most book I read are between 200 and 300 pages, but more on the 200 side. When I read technical books tough, things changes. There I can read for months the same book, but then again I have different goals with them. I tried many speed reading techniques but they are not worth for me.
P.S. I read in english which is not my primary tongue so you might perform better.
Thanks Oscar for the insight.
You are doing a great job through this blog! Congratulations.
Good suggestions for the most part. The one I question though is geting up early.
Morning people love t preach this like it’s the gospel, and they say you gain so much time, but I don’t see how you gain any time at all. You just shift your day. Assuming you want to get the same amount of sleep, gettingup earlier means going to bed earlier. Thus,you just shift your day forward, you still have the same amount of time.
I work in a job where I support other people – accodingly, most days I need to be here from 9am to 5pm – during normal business hours. All getting up early would do for me is mean I work more (because I need to stay at work until 5ish regardless) and have less free time. Evening is when I socialize, spend time with friends, and relax. Morning = go to work. Why would I want to get up earlier??
Plus, in my age group (young professional) going to bed at 9pm every night would totally destroy my social life. For example, I am on the board of a volunteer organization and our meetings often run past 9pm.
Now, if you are married with kids and work from home, I see how getting up early could be great. You get time to work while the wife and kids sleep, and you’re done working by the time your kids finish school. But it isn’t a one size fits all. I think, really, the key is to go to bed on time whenever that is. Night owls tend to stay up late and sacrifice sleep to do it, which is always a bad idea.
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Hey Jim, of course one fit all lists are never going to happen, you have to try out what works for yourself in all cases, despite what statistics are saying. Regarding this exact topic, I’m going to post later today my results of waking up at 5 am experiment. Thanks for your comment.
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1. 30 minutes exercise 5 days a week is recommended levels.
3. People who sleep 7 hours a night have a better life expectance than those who sleep 8. http://www.newscientist.com/article/dn1928-seven-hours-sleep-the-safest.html
4. You’ve updated this one, but its still wrong.
11. Wrong, “One found that men drinking between 21 and 30 units of alcohol a week had the lowest mortality rate in Britain. Another concluded that a man would have to drink 63 units a week, or a bottle of wine a day, to face the same risk of death as a teetotaller.”
http://www.timesonline.co.uk/tol/life_and_style/food_and_drink/article2697975.ece
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Hi Dave, thanks for pointing out that I’m wrong, I’m sure you have your reasons and of course everyone is different. Anyway I just wanted to say that it’s more than being right or right, it’s about trying something new and discover what works for you, that’s what it’s all about. Even quitting smoking and drinking is (in my opinion) something that enables you to try different things, regardless of health benefits.
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If you’re going to give advice, then you have to be prepared for it to stand up to scrutiny.
You are neither an expert (correct me if I’m wrong) nor do you cite your sources. I did not give you my opinion, I showed you places where you could get correct information.
Based on current research, if everyone followed your advice, you would reduce life expectancy.
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Of course I don’t expect everyone to agree with what I say, and I appreciate different feedbacks like your. Regarding sleep, we know very little about it and you have to see what works for you (ad it also depends on your age). The point of habits is to enable you to try something new, but you are free to try them or not, this is just a place where I share my experiences.
Dave,
I feel your comments coming across like that person who wants to get attention on a American Idol contest. They know they don’t stand a chance but they hope that if they make enough noise they will get noticed.
I disagree with some points that Oscar has made but I’m not here to make him tweak his post to my liking, I am here to read his comments and make the best of it. You made your point, he listened and then you moved on. The citations about only needing 7 hours of sleep at night is from a study conducted in 1988 and it is almost a common knowledge that you need at least 8 hours of sleep at night. Of course some of these studies are made just to “prove” wrong but at the end of the day take your time and sleep some days 7 hours at night while others 8 hours at night and let me know how you feel. You can’t make a rule that because some study made years ago is going to work for everyone and now we have to change our sleeping patterns.
Another wrong citation "Wrong, “One found that men drinking between 21 and 30 units of alcohol a week had the lowest mortality rate in Britain. " Come on, you are not going to use the rule the world with a research done in Britain, If I say that a research done in Britain says that people who ate 10 jalapeños a day lived longer, you are going to do the same? We know by common sense that less alcohol is better, did you know that in 1988 there 51% of alcohol-related fatalities (http://www.alcoholalert.com/drunk-driving-statistics.html) there are your statistics. Great benefit from drinking alcohol huh?
Finally, if I was asked who’s advice I wanted to follow by just looking at your Avatar picture, I would say that I would rather look like Oscar than you. He looks healthier over all and he is being kind enough to gather his knowledge and put it on a blog post.
I apologize if I wasn’t nice but I tried my best.
Hi Oscar,
Thank you for systemizing these habits and publishing them here. It’s a good reminder for everybody. I have about 10 of them already and will try to buid more.
I just want to ask you and the others to help me with the meditation – never new how to do it :-(
And a small suggestion for a habit – "Keep in touch with friends, even just to say Hi. Ask them “How are you?” and listen for the answer"
Thank you
Angela
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Hey Angela, thanks for your suggestion, that’s really a good habit to have. Regarding meditation you’re coming at the right time, in fact I’m starting a 30 days challenge on friday which will be all about meditation and visualization. I already did meditation before but I want to get back to the habit of doing it every day and I’ll write about the process here on the blog.
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Bossy little thing, aren’t you?
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Hey Jason, not sure what you mean with it.
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Thanks for this list, Oscar. Perhaps it comes under the “Puzzles” category but learning to read a new language, however casually you approach it, is the ultimate brain workout. Better than a crossword puzzle. :-)
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Hey Dale, great suggestion! I did this with English, and now I read and write everything in English (like this blog). Thanks for your comment.
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I am supposed to do all this AND meditate 30 minutes a day? :)
Just kidding – fantastic list! I am pleased with myself to see and know I do heaps of these already but there is always more ways to improve, enhance, and become better at things to live a better life. Excellent list. The healthy living habit is great, and for reading (especially the literary classics), a big thumbs up!
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Hey Farnoosh! No you are not supposed to do everything :-), this is just my list, but you can try and then decide what’s worth for you and it’s not. Thanks for your comment.
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Drinking that first cup of water in the morning is essential and you then realise that you. It really gives you an amazing boost for the rest of the day. Great post Oscar
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Hey Amit, thanks for the comment.
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Agree with all your points. Except for the 8-hour sleep and eating fish ones.
I’m a vegan and dymaxion polyphasic sleeper (2 hours sleep per day) so…
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Aha, yeah if you’re vegan and polyphasic I can see how you don’t agree with it. A question: do you practice intense sport activities? I’m trying to find out more about polyphasic sleep AND sport.
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Hi Oscar,
Great list. This weekend I reduced a ton of clutter and excess “Stuff” in order to help me prioritize what is important and let my mind relax.
It is amazing what getting rid of clutter does for the mind.
Take Care,
Mike
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Hey Mike, yes it definitely is. Thanks for your comment.
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Time saving tip — one great thing about yoga is that you get exercise + meditation at the same time
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Hey Andrew, I’ve never tried yoga, but maybe I’ll give it a go. Thanks.
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Hi Oscar, and who with recyling? and sex?
are two good practices, everything is very interesting.
bye!
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Hey Jo, of course they are, but I assumed everyone was doing them already :p
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What is refreshing about this article page is that you are taking the time to respond to so many people’s comments.
Quite often you read an article and read comments that have little or no responses and to read your responses gives the whole page more life and interest.
I will definitely be reading more of your articles.
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Hey, I think it’s important to reply to comments. After all someone has taken the time not only to read the article, but also to give their opinion, and I know we are all busy these days :-D. Thanks a lot for your feedback!
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How about we add these to the list of life improving habits for any given situation:
1. Check and adjust your breath
2. Check and adjust your posture
3. Answer the question: “what’s the right thing to do here?”
4. Strive towards doing that “right thing”
5. repeat
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Hey Taylor, great advices. Thanks for sharing them.
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You had me until “start a blog”.
I LOVE this post. As a matter of fact, I booked marked and tagged it ‘read often’.
However, the mathematics don’t quite work.
If I wake up at 5 and need 8 hours of sleep, then I’m in bed by 9 pm.
Assuming I’m at work by 8 am, home by 6 pm, how do I work out for 30 minutes, meditate for 30 minutes, read for 30 minutes (assuming I need to do that to finish a book a week), spend a few minutes every day cleaning my desk and do a puzzle? When will I have time to blog (or clean the house, pay my bills, grocery shop, or go to church for that matter)? Especially if I take off one day each week.
These are great things to aspire to. But I don’t think one should feel bad if they don’t reach all goals every day (especially if you have children).
I have a love / hate relationship with lists like these. I love reading them, but then they immediately make me feel guilty. As a working mom, I’m lucky if I can do these things once each week! Truly.
But thank you for the reminders. Always good.
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Hi Shari, making this list was not easy, and it’s certainly it’s not for everyone and for every situation. Also I don’t do every of them each day. Life is flexible and we’re not robots. Do you agree?
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Muy interesante!
Cómo así llegaste a estas 30 recomendaciones?
Pues si las practicas… o eres un santo; o no eres de este mundo!
Un abrazo; JC.
PS: Lo voy a postear en mi blog: http://micerebrum.blogspot.com/
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Hey Jose, feel free to post it on your blog!
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For years, people have criticized my need for at least 8 hours of sleep every night. I’ve heard it all – that I’m getting too much sleep, that I just like to sleep, that I won’t need as much sleep when I’m older. But I’ve listened to my body and I know that 8 hours is what I need. I can tell a big difference when I get less than that! Now if I can just convince my boss to let me take a 20-minute nap after lunch….
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Hey Megan, I actually would sleep even more than 8 hours if I could. Regarding the afternoon nap, that really depends on your work and your schedule. Now I work from home but I used to bring lunch at work and sometimes I could take a mini-nap when there was nobody around.
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I’m not a huge fan of concrete but I’ll give it a go.
(jk)
Great post, saving it. Imagine how amazing we could be if we followed all of these!
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Thank you. You have encapsulated into a single page all the things I would love to have as habits. Your suggested approach to change is also very helpful. I really appreciate this post.
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Hey Vicki, I’m very glad you liked it :)
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bull shit live your life as you want…No one knows tomorrow exists or not..
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Dear unknown, today is the first anniversary of the death of my cousin. It was that day that I decided to open my eyes. What I’ve written here is not something that you must do, everyone is free to choose, and for many it means freedom. Of course you are free to do what you want ;)
Awesome (and very comprehensive!) article! I love how you mentioned that people should only add one per month. People don’t always realize that small changes can make a huge difference in their lives!
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Hey Michelle, yes and that’s the key in my opinion. Doing everything together does never work, and it always takes more time at the end.
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Hi,
Thanks for making this great list, my best part was the productivity habits cause I do have problems with procrastination and I hope this will do the trick :)
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Hey Corinne, give it a try, and let me know if it helps you :)
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Thanks for reminding me. Due to my hectic schedules I may overlooked certain habits.
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You’re welcome Charmaine :)
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Great list. Just stumbled here, another solution for e-mail is to get a desktop program that lets you know if you have any new e-mail as you get them. This has saved me time as I rarely have to go into my actual account and my e-mail doesn’t build up on me.
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Hey Justin, actually I prefer to avoid email when I can, so I have disabled notifications.
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Oscar this is an excellent list. Thank you for posting all these hacks in one place. Also, very impressed you have answered all your comments. Great job mate!
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Hey Glenn, replying to comments is the minimum I can do. After all you’ve taken the time to read the article and also to leave a comment.
Oscar
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Love the list- certainly something to aspire too even if doing them all is perhaps unachievable for everyday.
The 8 hour sleep. Oh how I miss that! Maybe once my little one starts sleeping longer! I definitely need to spend LESS time at the computer/tv or have internet free days so that I could get more done I think!
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Hey Lulu, I know, sometimes getting 8 hours is difficult, especially if you have a baby. I think one solution would be to take small naps when you can. Thanks for your comment.
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On build a portfolio, what do you mean by “You can also contribute stuff for free if that applies to your work.”?
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Hey Maggie, sorry for the confusion. If you are a writer, designer, or you do some sort of consulting, one way to promote your work is giving away examples of your work in order to build reputation. Having a technical blog is an example of that, but there are many other ways.
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Great post. There are definitely some things here that I need to work on. On the other hand it’s great to read a list like this and see things that I already do to make my life better (eat fish, stop drinking soda). It makes me feel like I am already on the right path of changing my life.
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Hey Brittany, yes that’s definitely something motivating. Glad you liked the post.
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Oscar – I took your list and altered it for moms. Thanks for starting the discussion.
http://www.momlogic.com/experts/shari_storm/stories/
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Awesome Shari :)
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These are very well put together tips that I know when implemented daily bring about very big rewards for the person. Excellent and very direct list.
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Hey Baker, thanks for your comment :)
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awesome :) that is all :)…take care
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Cheers Ivan
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These are really healthy advices, but not possible for me to achieve. I wake up at 8:30 and go to work, and leave at 7 or 8 at night. Travel home, bath and dinner, it will be about 10. I cannot meditate 30 min, exercise 30 min and sleep 8 hrs. I will have no time to do anything else..
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Hey Lai, choose one at a time and do what you can. It would be impossible for everyone to do all of them at once the first time :)
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Who knows how I got here but you need a RT button I surely would of tapped it :)
Excellent work I need some positive to end a GREAT Day Thanks
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Hey John, I’ll put that button. Thanks for your feedback
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Great post! An amazing thing I’ve found with being on a Raw Vegan Diet is that I can go to bed most nights at 12 midnight and get up at 5am with no noticeable tiredness. I exercise and then get started working. It’s incredible and feels totally normal.
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One question: before eating raw, how many hours of sleep did you need?
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Actually I have heared this from other people too. There are many benefits to this diet – the people I knew doing it used to sleep around 8 to 9 hours per night. Both told me they slept less, felt lighter and had more energy, glowing skin.
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Hi there!
Just thought I’d add a comment for all those daunted when reading all these suggestions:
1) Work out where on your journey to work is about 15 minutes walk from your office. Get off the bus or train stop there and walk the rest. When I started doing this it was only just over 1km from work, now it’s up to just over 2km – the walk clears your head and doing the there and back each day means that you hit the base level of 30 minutes daily.
If you drive seriously have a look at the parking costs in a car park ~ 15 minutes away from work and compare that to a weekly gym membership (which will probably lapse after a while!) – most car parks offer serious discounts for longer term parking.
2) Stand up at work (physically!). You can raise your desk to standing level (I’m typing this now whilst standing up) or place your computer on a book shelf. A lot of the issues generated be sedentary life (including poor posture etc.) is due to being seated all the time. Standing means that you’re burning more calories (even by standing still) as your body’s core muscles are engaged.
3) I actually picked up this habit whilst I was a smoker (so it’s not ALL that bad!) – but regular 5-10 minute breaks every 1-2 hours or so is brilliant. Working in a non-smoking office I HAD to go outside and walk around the block. I swore blind that it was the ciggies that made me more concentrated, but in fact it was the short walk in the fresh air which did it (I now realise this!). Put a pot of green tea on to brew, walk down the stairs, around the block and back up the stairs … your tea is brewed and you’re ready to go again!
4) Final point, and this is a slight disagreement with you – but with a positive outcome. I don’t hold much truck with the mandated 8 hours sleep, I usually get about 6-7 hours, BUT (here’s the positive), I read for half an hour and then mediate for half an hour before going to sleep (so starting at 10pm and working through to 11pm – I get up just before 6am). I find this works for two reasons:
- reading something not related to your work means that you’re not thinking about work (although I tend to aim for longer books, so I don’t hit the 1 book a week “habit” but at least I’m more widely read ;P) - with your mind in that state I find it easier, and quicker, to engage a meditative state quicker … perfect for dropping off to sleep!Sorry for being a bit long winded about this, but when you sit back and unpack the different parts you soon get over an hour of activity a day (15mins x 2 and 3-4 5-10min active breaks), coupled with the standing etc.
Cheers,
Andy
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Another point, sorry!
About the 5-10 minutes break thing. When I quit smoking (but still took those breaks) my boss pulled me up on it and asked me why I wasn’t at my desk (He’s an ex-smoker, so my smoking breaks were some how “acceptable” for him…!).
A quick read of my offices health and safety guidelines pointed out that anyone working with a computer should take “regular” breaks in order to minimise carpal tunnel syndrome. So I pointed out that I was only complying with the guidelines, and this was obviously a matter for Human Resources (smart a**e I know, but rules are rules!) – strangely enough nothing more came out of it!
Further to this, and I think most people will agree, if you sit at a desk for hours on end there will be periods of time when you just zone out. Being at your desk all the time doesn’t mean that you’re working all the time!
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We can indeed do lot of physical activity without going to the gym. Thanks for your extensive comments!
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I would recommend against 8 hours of sleep a night, if that is not what you are used to. I need about 7, and have learned that I will not be as productive if I get more or less, and have meet other people who become zombies too if they get too much sleep.
I also am more productive in the evenings then the morning and do not see the advantage to trying to get my todos done first thing in the morning. Plus finishing up my todo list for the day makes it easier to go to sleep, with out a list of things to get done in the morning.
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Not everyone need the same amount, and I should have made that more clear. Anyway I also think it depends on diet, for example vegan and raw tend to need less sleep.
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I think the point Oscar makes is that we can make a lot of stuff when we wake up early. When I am to be at the office at 0900 and wake up at 0500, I can: meditate (30 min), work out (30 min), have nice time with partner, have lovely breakfast, do all these good things for myself. In addition to it: can plan for the day, write journal, read newspapers, prepare a bit for work, have enough time for grooming etc., declutter, wash dishes. With so many good things done and a happy smile on my face I can definitely have a good start of the day!
Thanks Oscar for the list, I think it’s great!! Loved Angela’s comment too on being in touch with friends!! List comes in a great timing for me. Have read some more posts, very inspiring!! So many thanks again
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Hey Cali, I’m glad you enjoyed the post. You could do those activities later in the day, but chances are that there are other things coming up and you always have to posticipate, that’s why I like waking up early.
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좋은글 이군요 ^^* 이메일을 두번 보는 것은 이해가 안되는군요 , 결정을 1분안에 하는것도 ….
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30 Habits that Will Change your Life — 작은 습관들. (via freestylemind.com)
Hi Oscar,
I’m totally agree with items you mentioned in personal development habits. We are what we think, indeed. It’s not easy to be always on our top performance or thinking positively. But I think it challenges us, to keep improving ourselves to be better from day to day.
I also agree that sleep and breakfast are important, although my peers don’t really do it (and think I’m such a baby when I tuck in early since I like to wake up early)
Lastly, thanks for sharing this, the points remind me about lots of things. :)
Kartika.
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Hey Kartika, I’m glad that you liked the article. Thanks for your comment!
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Hey! Its really good tips. Even If I follow few initially, it would help me to fix many issues. Here, I want to know more about 30 minutess exercise. I generally walk/run and stretch for 15 minutes. will this work or what other exercises I should add into. Would help me if can elaborate/provide more details on what will suffice in that 30 minutes exercise. Thanks..!
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Hey SKanzee, I think walking and stretching is already good, maybe you can add some exercises like pushups, abs, etc, or you can simply go out for a run some days. The important thing is that you don’t need to buy any material and you can start slow and increase with time.
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Thanks..!! Agree..it should work.
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This all sounds great, but I don’t know what kind of job you have where you can check email twice daily. What happens when your boss comes by and asks for the report he requested by email, or you miss meetings you were invited to but didn’t see the email? If you work in a modern company, that tip doesn’t work at all.
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It depends on the job of course. I work at a startup as a programmer so it’s not really important that I check email constantly. Most people do though, even if it’s not necessary, that’s when we have the problem. If your job requires checking email then it’s not a problem, it’s part of the job requirements.
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Hello Oscar,
Excellent tips!
I would like to share my experience i had years ago.
Meditating before going to bed will helped me to relax my mind. Also I found it is better to go for sleeping before you gets too tired by the day’s work.
Mind is machine. we need to shut it down before we go to bed. If we watch movies/TV etc. before bedtime, we are only helping our mind to continue its work.
Also keeping my spine straight during office hours helped me a lot from getting exhausted by the end of the day.
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Hi Jagadeesh, nice tips, thanks for sharing!
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very nice suggestions. will try to follow .thanks
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You’re welcome!
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Great post! I really need start doing this: Prioritize. Thanks for the reminder. Happy blogging =)
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You’re welcome denz!
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Thank you for your effective blog :) i have really become determined to apply the tips that suit my lifestyle and even willing to change some of my ineffective habits.
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Hey Soha, I’m glad you liked the post :)
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