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To Specialize in Your Niche, or Not?

I often hear from the average people that in order to build a successful career you need to specialize in doing something. I also that in school where you usually get high specialization in one skill while ignoring the rest. But I have always been a generalist myself, and so I used to think that when I switched from skill to skill I was only loosing my time. At least this is what they told me, I knew I was doing the right thing.

It all started when I was young, when I would practice a sport for one or two years, only to discover that I was interested in doing something else, and so I ended up doing like six different sports in less than ten years. Eventually this attitude followed me in everything I did from school to work.

It wasn’t until two years ago that I discovered the importance of being a generalist. Being able to do multiple things is an important skill itself, and it’s the essence of personal development.

Take for example Mc Donalds and his hamburgers, could you make an hamburger better than him? If yes, why is he richer than you? This is a common example, but it helps to illustrate a fact: Mc Donalds sells hamburgers because he know how to sell and reach people, but not only that, he also know the real estate business very well, that’s why you can see his restaurants in all the corners of the world.

But he is not the only one who know this secret, you can find this attitude in every successful person you know.

Talking about the opposite, I know a few copywriters who can do amazing work, yet they often struggle to pay bills on time. I had a chance to talk with a few of them and they told me they would like to increase their sales, but once I told them that they had to learn how to sell their services, they refused saying that I was advising them to become a sort of sales people.

The reality is that the world is full with talented people, but few of them succeed, and they always do because they learnt how to sell themselves. Of course selling is not the only important thing to learn, I am emphasizing it here because most people hate it, and I want to touch a nerve. Other important things includes communicating, solving problems, managing others, etc.

So how do you actually learn a new skill? One of the best ways I know is by doing it as a job. If you want to learn to sell and overcome shyness, try to get a job at selling; if you want to learn to communicate, offer free seminars to strangers (who said that a job must be paid?). You can switch your main job if you have the opportunity, but you can also start your new ‘profession’ in your free time and still be able to pay your bills. Be creative.

This is important because you’ll be able to catch more opportunities. It will be essential for you five years from now to know how to sell and how to market when you’ll have written your first book about gardening.

The last step is knowing how much you need to learn. In my opinion, you should be able to reach the top 10 percent of what you are trying to do. Not the top 10 percent in the world, but rather in your area. That’s like getting an A when you are in school. This is effective because it will be easier to get the equivalent of an A in a relative short period of time (say 2 years), but you would only spend unnecessary time trying to get an A+ and become the best in the world in everything you do.

I conclude this post by remembering to have fun. You should always have fun when you learn new things and take every experience as an opportunity to grow. It ma be hard at first, but once you’ll get started it will be easier, and you’ll be glad you had started today.

Posted on August 13 2009

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  1. August 13 2009 at 22:03

    REally enjoyed this post, Oscar! I’ve heard before Ray wasn’t into the hambuger business, he was in the “real estate” business. Smart, smart guy.

    And, yes, Guy K, says it all the time. A ton of talent out there but few willing to sell themselves.

    I like your idea of embracing that purported “weakness” and turning it into a strength.

    excellent post!

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    • AvatarOscar Says:
      August 13 2009 at 22:08

      Hey Brian! I heard a lot of people every day saying that we should not improve our weakest areas but improve our strengths. I think that’s true for two main reasons: the first is that skills like selling, communicating and marketing are essentials if you want to create a profitable business; the second is that it is too easy to just focus on what you are already good at.

      Oscar

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  2. AvatarStefan Says:
    August 13 2009 at 22:57

    The problem with internet is that a lot of people who are trying to be the best always compare themselves with the whole world. It’s extremely difficult to find an area where you are THE best and therefore you should accept to be in the top, always striving to be the best.

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  3. August 14 2009 at 16:35

    Oscar!
    Great post!

    I have had a big problem with selling myself, having the feeling it is unethical or weird, but have come to realize that in todays society that is what you need to do to get ahead.

    I remember a successful person telling me once that if there are two people applying for a job, one being much better at it than the other but not being able to sell himself, and the other guy who isnt really that good but the way he presents himself and hypes himself up towards the person hiring him is fantastic, actually the less talented but more wellspoken man will get the job more often than not.

    Have a great weekend sir!
    Diggy

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    • AvatarOscar Says:
      August 16 2009 at 18:58

      What you said it’s true, and it will become even more clear year after year. I think most people know it but they either don’t know how to change or are too lazy to try it.

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  4. August 15 2009 at 07:58

    In your McDonald’s example, the original McDonald’s was actually the product of two brothers. They built a highly successful hamburger shop that sold a lot of milk shakes.

    It was the milk shake machine salesman, Ray Kroc that noticed that these brothers were using more milk shake machines and selling more milk shakes than any of his other customers. Ray Kroc also saw that these brothers had a great system for getting the fast food out quickly and approached the McDonald’s brothers to first partner with them and eventually buy them out.

    Sales skills are often far more important than actually building great things. I think we can see that online as well. People with great copy writing skills can sell information that is largely available for free on less professional and poorly marketed sites.

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    • AvatarOscar Says:
      August 15 2009 at 08:14

      Thanks for the clarification John! Nice to see you here

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  5. AvatarEvan Says:
    August 17 2009 at 02:36

    You make some great points. While it is easier to be strong in a niche (what I’m trying to do on my site), I agree with what you say. I think true growth comes from pushing your boundaries.

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  6. September 09 2009 at 04:07

    Oscar,
    Interesting stuff. I’m torn on this subject.

    Yes, broading your skill set is important for personal development but in the same breath I could make an argument for filling your skill gaps with other people so that you can focus on strengths and preserve time. Unfortunately, time is not infinite.

    Mike

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    • AvatarOscar Says:
      September 09 2009 at 07:45

      Interesting response. I think we should choose a skill where we have strength and then build all the other skills that support it. Thanks for your comment Michael.

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  7. September 13 2009 at 22:04

    Hey me again. I am exactly the same in the generalisation thing. I was told the same thing at school, people even scorned my generalisation saying I would never be successful. Something I believed for a long time :)

    I really liked your answer to this “deficiency”. Which is another case of making anything which could be a flaw into an asset.

    However I think that while it is important to learn multiple skills and always keep learning. I also think that it is dangerous to do the same in the dreams department. If you have too many dreams you can end up never achieving anything. I went to a life coach recently and this was the precise problem he identified for me. Yet as I looked back I realised that anytime when I really did focus on one dream or aspiration I achieved it!

    So …. moral of the story:
    expand your skill set and never stop learning. Focus your dreams down into one concentrated image of what you want to achieve. Get rid of any distractions to this image. And when you can hold it in your head then you have it :)

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    • AvatarOscar Says:
      September 14 2009 at 09:17

      Hey Lindsay! Thanks for dropping by. Yes if you do many things at once you can end up with nothing done. I personally prefer to do one things a time and focus on that until it’s done. At least I try to.

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  8. September 14 2009 at 11:08

    isnt that just the dang. At the moment Im following one passion so intensely that my house is in an absolute tip. Theres two dogs Im looking after, and theyve ripped apart their bed all over the living room, I just stepped over it and took them for a walk… Because I know that If I start cleaning there, ill start mopping, then Ill start hoovering upstairs, and then Ill procrastinate a whole nother day away from what I really want to be doing. And IM leaving for dublin on wednesday so I havent got the time :)

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