Editor note: This is a guest post from Henri Junttila of Wake Up Cloud.
With the launch of my blog I have been doing a lot of commenting on blogs, communicating in forums and through email. One thing I am seeing over and over again is the amount of complexity in people’s lives.
A good example is finding your passion. You do not have to make it a five-page essay when you’re explaining what your passion is. If you can’t tell people what you are passionate about in one or two sentences, then you probably need to reconsider.
Learning how to simplify your life is simple, if you let it. It’s easy to analyze, scrutinize and pick apart every thought, that’s how the brain works, but it is not what gets results. If you want results, you have to use your brain just enough, take action and recalibrate.
Passion
A big problem today is that most people do not know what their passion is. The mere thought of thinking about finding your passion can overwhelm you, I know it certainly did for me in the past. I used to be extremely analytic, trying to figure everything out and have everything planned before I started anything.
Needless to say, this did not work well and things didn’t start to pick off for me until I gave up the mind masturbation habit. If you don’t know what your passion is, then your best bet is to start doing stuff and seeing what you don’t like. Writing down what you love to do, as long as you get in the ballpark of what it might be is awesome.
If you don’t have a clue about what to do, just do something and see how it feels. We have been learning how to neglect our feelings for a long time. After all, they aren’t that important? Or are they? Sitting at home trying to think things out doesn’t work. You didn’t choose to be born so you could sit and think, you chose to be born so you could experience.
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Stepping out of the box and letting go of your imaginary prison is hard, because it’s hard to realize that you’re in a prison in the first place. I’ve been trying to find my passion for about a year, but the problem has always been that I was comfortable doing what I wanted to do, so I didn’t really want to find my passion. It was just a way of feeling good, telling myself that I couldn’t find my passion, so it was okay that I was doing something I hated.
Once you become serious, the universe provides you with all the tools you need. You have to take action if you want to get somewhere. I got serious about finding my passion a few months ago, which was around the same time I started feeling like something was missing in my life. I don’t know the exact dates, so don’t yell at me if you find me contradicting myself, I’m not a huge fan of time.
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There’s a distinction between being serious and being serious. The seriousness I talked about above is accompanied by clarity and knowing. The other seriousness is accompanied by frustration, blame, why me and all those feelings that bring you down.
When you’ve truly found your passion, you’ll know because you aren’t asking yourself when am I going to make money and why is nothing happening. It’s easy to confuse passion with something else. It’s a learning process and we’re all at different places on the path.
No part of the path is better than another. We can all share our experiences and learn. Learning how to be ridiculous and playful is a huge relief. You do not have to be so serious (the bad serious) about being right all the time. Let yourself fail and learn.
Fail
In order to find what you truly love, you have to fail, a lot. The faster you fail, the faster you’ll get to where you want to be. Look at some of the famous failures, such as Thomas Edison, Abraham Lincoln and Michael Jordan. They failed a lot, but they kept going.
It doesn’t matter if you don’t know your passion right away. Failing is human. When we look at successful people we only see how well they are doing, but we often do not see the tough times where they worked their face off and failed over and over again.
Practicality
You don’t have to quit your job in order to do what you love. There is no reason for you to put an amazing amount of pressure on yourself to quit your job. If you work from 9-5, then you have plenty of time after your job to do what you love.
It’s up to you to take responsibility for your life. If you come home, take a beer, watch TV and sleep, then you have no one but yourself to blame. If you truly want to change your life, you have to take action and work hard.
Work at your job and do what you love. When your passion is making enough money to sustain you, you can think about quitting, but let’s be practical, please.
Paralysis
There’s no need to analyze every part of what you are going to do. If you think your passion is gardening, then start doing it. Your brain is not meant to know how things are going to happen. Have you noticed that when you’re trying to control the future, it leads to nothing but stress and anxiety? It’s not a coincidence.
Identify what you can do, then do it. You will never figure out what your passion is by analyzing it to death. You are responsible for the life you create. What makes you feel good when you do it? I’m not talking about something that could make you money. If money didn’t exist, what would you do?
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That’s what I have to say, what about you? What’s your biggest obstacle to finding your passion?
Posted on December 28 2009
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Thanks a lot for letting me post here, Oscar! :)
.-= Henri @ Wake Up Cloud´s last blog ..How to Manifest Synchronicity =-.
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You are welcome!
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Hey Henri (and Oscar),
Not to nitpick or anything, but for a post about simplifying and taking action, this is an awfully long article. :)
.-= Brett – DareToExpress.com´s last blog ..What is Success? (Episode #002) =-.
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Yes it is, but it is a good one ;)
.-= Henri @ Wake Up Cloud´s last blog ..How to Manifest Synchronicity =-.
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I totally agree about wanting too much control, it never leads to anything good. Do what you love, know what you want, take action and see where it will take you. Took me a long time to learn this, but it is definitely a way to go:)
.-= Lana – DreamFollowers Blog´s last blog ..The Ultimate Guide to Creative Visualization =-.
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It’s definitely not an easy thing to do, to release control and just see what happens. At least it hasn’t been for me, but it is something worth reminding yourself of and just relaxing a bit.
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Yes, make lots of decisions quickly. You’ll fail fast and you’ll fail often but it saves you lots of time and long term helps you simplify your life while taking action.
.-= Gordie´s last blog ..Beyond Blogging. =-.
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Yup, failing a lot definitely helps. That is, if you’re learning from it and failing in the right way. It’s better to take action than to plan too much. Thanks for stopping by, Gordie ;)
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I think the “enjoy” bit is the more important part. If you’re not having fun than whats the point.
.-= Anthony Feint´s last blog ..6 Ways to Boost Your Energy =-.
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Exactly. We’re past all the work 9-5 and get kids and die thing. It’s time for passiony stuff!
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I like the advice on enjoying and failure because:
1. Failing means that you are trying. In order to fail, you must actually be doing something right? That’s the biggest hurdle for many people…to get from doing nothing to doing something, no matter how small. To get over the fear of failure and just do it anyway.
2. Enjoyment is so important. There are so many frickin’ blogs out there and obviously equally as many people giving advice and writing about how you should live. It can be a bit of an overload and I do think that people can get ‘stuck’ in following someone else’s path and way of doing things. Make sure to listen to your own inner voice and always question your motives for doing something. Ask yourself if you enjoy what you’re doing.
.-= Nate´s last blog ..How to Deal With Stress in Your Life =-.
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I see so many people trying to plan to perfection before they even start. I just tell them to do something now, now, now. Take action. Do. C’mon, now…
I can resonate with the stuckness. I’ve read a lot of blogs and gone through courses in the past and I tried to emulate people instead of doing it my way. Once I embraced myself everything started to go smoothly. You have to trust yourself and allow yourself to make mistakes. It’s easier that way.
.-= Henri @ Wake Up Cloud´s last blog ..How to Manifest Synchronicity =-.
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I’ve been quilty of overplanning and pushing things to the future, and posts like this remind me how important it is to do and force myself out of the “analysis paralysis”. I probably still do that to this day, but I’ve consciously focused on doing things, instead of getting stuck on planning and analyzing like I did before.
I still plan and analyze when I get the chance (one of my passions maybe?), but nowadays primary goal is to end up doing whatever I’m planning (when before it might’ve been “I’ll do it later” or “it’s not gonna work anyway”).
.-= Antti Kokkonen´s last blog ..Beyond Blogging Review – Top-Notch Advice from 15 A-List Bloggers =-.
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I think most people have been guilty of overplanning and wanting things to be perfect. We all have the same fears. I have them. But I’ve discovered that just doing things anyway – even though you’re afraid – works wonders. Try it! Thanks for stopping by, Antti!
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Great post! Passion is so difficult to come by these days. Thanks for the reminder!
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Finding your passion can be tough, but not impossible. It is definitely worth it though.
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I’ve often quit looking for my passion just because someone has pointed out I’ve failed. I no longer share with anyone what I am doing and why. Its not important. But I’m still exploring…. I think I might’ve found a few things I’m passionate about. Do you think that is possible? To be passionate about more than one thing? Or is it too distracting to do justice to just one thing
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I definitely think you can be passionate about more than one thing. For me it has always helped to focus on one passion at a time, but it might be different for you. Listen to your heart and feelings, they know what to do. If you feel passion for two things then that is how it is! Thanks for sharing your thoughts, Maureen. I really appreciate it!
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Hey Henri, thanks for this post. :D great insights to start my new year. :D
Mighty= Mighty´s last blog ..Welcome to the Leadership and Social Entrepreneurship Blog =-..
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