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Planning For The New Year

2010 will begin in just two weeks, and this is the perfect time for us to set new goals, except that I’ve never done it before. in fact I’ve always planned when I needed to do so, without waiting for the new year to come. Still, this time is different because I feel the need to realign my goals and values.

The reason I feel a need to realign my goals is because I just had a few days of laziness where I would get bored doing anything from reading to working.

This is not good and I know it was a sign, so after a while I decided to deal with it and save my sanity.

Planning for the long term

I think that it’s difficult to come up with a general way to plan for long term goals, as everyone is different. However we can still use a general framework to help us planning for the new year.

The following is what I’ve used so far. It’s based on simplicity and practicality as I don’t want to start the new year with too much things to do.


  1. Acknowledge your current situation. It’s extremely useful to do a quick review of your current situation. Some areas you may want to look at are finance, health and relationships. Don’t be afraid of doing this analysis, as there’s always a way to fix all the problems, but you have to clarify them first.

  2. Deal with necessities first. It doesn’t help to work only in your finances if you already have a good income but your relationships sucks.

  3. Make a plan. At this point I usually have a list of 3 or 4 areas where I want to see improvements, so I write down a goal for each of them. It sounds easy that it’s not, as you have to write something specific and achievable, and write a small plan for it. I’ll show you an example of this later in the article.

  4. The map is not the territory. The fact that you have a plan doesn’t mean that everything will work the way you expected, so be prepared to change it accordingly.

Not just goals

When I think of the new year, I also think at how I would like to be. This is slightly different than setting goals, because I am thinking at personality traits rather than physical things. For these I just make a list of how I would like to be.

A practical example

Theory is good, but let’s see a practical example of planning.

In the following example you can see that I only have two goals for 2010 and three personality traits where I want to excel. As you can see I didn’t go for quantity but rather for quality.

Posted on December 21 2009

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  3. December 21 2009 at 19:12

    Hey Oscar.

    Good call about acknowledging our current situation. Sometimes we make goals like we are someone else, or like we have some ability we don’t currently have yet. They seem cool at first, but they are not goals for us, as they are for someone else. Our goals have to only be for us, regardless of how small or useless they may seem to someone else. They won’t seem small or useless for long if we keep making them specifically for ourselves.

    I like the simple usage of that piece of paper. It is clean and neat, and you can see exactly what you want to be doing. The traits you are seeking to build up or maintain are winning ones as pro-activity solves the majority of other problems. I like your transparency.
    .-= Armen Shirvanian´s last blog ..Don’t Stop Doing What You Enjoy To Save Time =-.

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    • AvatarOscar Says:
      December 22 2009 at 08:07

      Hey Armen, thanks for your feedback. Another problem with writing a lot of goals is that it’s difficult to achieve them all.

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  4. AvatarFabian Says:
    December 21 2009 at 19:34

    Quality over quantity, that’s the way to go. I also wrote down some goals for 2010 today while sitting in a café thouh there are still some things to clarify… the idea is to get to a similar simple list as yours.

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  5. AvatarAndrew Says:
    December 21 2009 at 23:56

    I went through a similar thing about a week ago, getting bored with the everyday etc.

    In setting goal’s and figuring out what I wanted to be doing to give me some sort of purpose, the best advice I was given was to write down “What can’t I NOT do”… Sounds like a double negative but it was the most focused question I had to ask myself.

    Have you got any ideas on the new websites you’re going to build? Surely the internet would be getting a bit saturated with traffic driving advertising sites, what are your thoughts on this?
    .-= Andrew´s last blog ..On the Eighth Day of Christmas – US Options Trading Part 2 =-.

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    • AvatarOscar Says:
      December 23 2009 at 00:09

      The market is already saturated but new niches and opportunities appear everyday. I believe that if we can offer people what they really want the concept of competition vanishes.

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  6. AvatarSteven Says:
    December 22 2009 at 03:36

    It’s definitely important to deal with the necessities first. Otherwise you’ll only be left with things that will make you feel good about yourself, however, not things that you will really enjoy your life with.

    One thing to point out tho, everybody always thinks that a new year is a completely new fresh start. It isn’t, it is just an illusion of a new beginning when it is just the same as any other day of this world’s existence.

    People don’t have to wait until the start of 2010 to take action and change their circumstance. People can do it right now if they want to.
    .-= Steven´s last blog ..Intellectual understanding Vs. Intuitive connection =-.

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    • AvatarOscar Says:
      December 23 2009 at 00:10

      I agree, that’s how it’s only a coincidence that I’m doing this these days. However for some people the new year might be the kick in the ass they need.

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  7. AvatarGordie Says:
    December 22 2009 at 04:40

    Hey Oscar,
    I got big plans for my blog in 2010. I’m revealing them to you guys on January the 1st.

    I love that idea that the map is not the territory. It’s important to be prepared for things that don’t always go according to plan.
    .-= Gordie´s last blog ..How To Use Goals, Autosuggestion, Commitment And Consistency. =-.

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  8. December 22 2009 at 04:44

    Quality is definitely the way to go. This will also give you higher likeliness of achieving your goals too!
    .-= Ken Kurosawa´s last blog ..How to Satisfy Our Need to Belong =-.

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  9. December 22 2009 at 05:22

    Hey Oscar!

    I like your minimalist approach, but I think I’m really going to go big with my goals for this year. I can’t wait to put them in action – though I haven’t really thought of them yet.

    It’s all about finding what works for you, though – some people prefer less goals, some prefer more. I’m of the latter category since I find that goals really make me push myself to be the best I can be.

    Cheers!
    .-= Brett – DareToExpress.com´s last blog ..Check Your Default Expression For Signs of Life =-.

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  10. AvatarPAPA Says:
    December 22 2009 at 17:07

    Oscar, your goals are too tiny, I can’t see them! :)

    So glad to hear you set your goals and look forward to your success in 2010!
    .-= PAPA´s last blog ..Giveaway! Little Debbie Share-A-Thon and The Smile Squad descend on LA, hand out cupcakes. Win YOUR cupcake party pack! =-.

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    • AvatarOscar Says:
      December 23 2009 at 00:13

      Lol, maybe if they are tiny there’ll be more chances to achieve them :D

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  11. AvatarMighty Says:
    December 23 2009 at 00:34

    “When I think of the new year, I also think at how I would like to be” <— I love this! You're not just focusing on the destination but also on the journey. :D

    I wish you the best for 2010 Oscar. :)

    mighty
    .-= Mighty´s last blog ..Kannawidan Song for the Ilocos Sur Kannawidan Festival =-.

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  12. December 23 2009 at 14:33

    Wow that’s pretty uncanny and ties in with the post I’ve just written too. Have a great new year and I hope you achieve all your goals oscar!

    Amit
    .-= Amit Sodha – The Power Of Choice´s last blog ..Send Your Enthusiasm Skyrocketing This Xmas =-.

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    • AvatarOscar Says:
      December 23 2009 at 14:51

      Thanks Amit, I hope you’ll achieve all your goals too!

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  13. AvatarTravis Says:
    December 25 2009 at 05:03

    Haha, funny you mention new years goals, cause I’ve NEVER made one in my life that I’ve taken seriously, however this year is certainly different. I definitely wanna make a goal that I can both agree with and feel holds true values to what I believe in.

    Hope all is well Oscar!
    .-= Travis´s last blog ..90-10 Rule =-.

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    • AvatarOscar Says:
      December 25 2009 at 10:40

      Hey Travis. We are in the same boat, it’s the first time for me too! Happy holidays

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  14. December 26 2009 at 06:31

    I love the concept of being instead of having, Oscar. Sometimes we can’t control outside circumstances but we can always control who we choose to be.
    .-= Lana – DreamFollowers Blog´s last blog ..How To Spend Time With Yourself and Why. =-.

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  15. AvatarWalter Says:
    December 26 2009 at 13:57

    Remember Oscar, every single moment of our life is an opportunity. Let’s no waste it shall we? After all, our time is limited. :-)

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  16. AvatarRian Says:
    December 28 2009 at 14:33

    My plans for the coming year?
    write articles twice a day
    Do SEO off page and on page daily
    Put up another website
    Continue working
    Make another plan for 2011
    .-= Rian´s last blog ..Become an Online Freelance Writer – Real Internet Jobs =-.

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  17. December 28 2009 at 20:43

    Oscar,

    I have been focusing on what I want to accomplish in 2010 since sometime in November because I think that the New Year’s Syndrome is a really dangerous place to be. It basically puts you in a position where you can fall victim to conditioned behavior where you set goals but don’t look back at them until next year. Granted, since we are a bunch of personal development bloggers, that’s probably not gonna happen :). Best to you in 2010.
    .-= Srinivas Rao´s last blog ..Conduct an inventory of your greatest strengths =-.

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