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Interview with Colin Wright of Exile Lifestyle

This week I’m interviewing Colin from Exile Lifestyle. Colin is a lifestyle designer and traveller and he has a very interesting story to share. Enjoy.

Oscar: Hey Colin, thanks for giving me the opportunity to interview you. Can you talk a bit about you and your current lifestyle?

Colin: Hey Oscar; absolutely!

The short story is that I run a branding-focused design studio and move to a new country every 4 months, running my business and writing about what I’ve learned at Exile Lifestyle.

The slightly longer story is that I’m a bit of a serial entrepreneur (this is my 5th business) and started my first when I was 19 and in college. I’m originally from the San Francisco area, but moved to Missouri when I was 9, so I was able to live in very contrasting environments as a child, which really helped spur my interest in sociology and communication.

I use lifestyle design to increase the amount of time I have to myself while maintaining a strong level of quality for my clients. I focus on sustainability because it helps me and my clients save money while saving the environment. I’m a minimalist; I sold everything I owned before I left Los Angeles and now I own just under 70 things in the world. By the time I move to New Zealand (the next country my readers voted for me to go to), I hope to be down to 50. I’m also a voracious reader, an above-average yo-yoist, left-handed and what you might call a rational Stoic Humanist.

My lifestyle currently involves moving a lot, as I mentioned before, but there’s a bit more to it than just working from a different country from time to time.

What I’m trying to do is learn the things that I can’t pick up from books. You can learn a whole lot from reading, but you cannot have the kinds of experience that radically alter the way you look at the world or build new friendships with people who are an inspiration to you. I wanted to fill in the gaps, and the biggest gap in my education is one of worldly experience.

I spend a lot of my time just exploring the country I’m in. I make connections and build up my professional network, but most of the time I’m just doing my best to live like the locals do so that I’ll have a different lens to look at the world through.

Oscar: You are currently living in various part of the world based on your readers recommendations. How did you got such idea?

Colin: It was actually totally random, and I think it started out as a joke with my girlfriend at the time (same thing with the idea for our Breakup Party…we joked about it before realizing just how awesome it would be).

It’s perfect for me, though, because part of what I’m looking for in life is a challenge. To a degree, LA got too easy and being sent to who-knows-where, totally unprepared, has put me in situations where I’ve really been tested and puts me in a mindset where I can make lots of mistakes.

Mistakes are great, and I always learn best through trial-by-fire experiences.

Oscar: How were you able to develop this lifestyle?

It took a whole lot of rearranging and sacrifices!

I reduced my client load by passing some clients on to other designers and started to only take on projects that fit a very specific criteria: things that I could do relatively quickly, cost-effectively and with a nice profit margin. Branding specifically is something that comes very naturally to me, so branding packages and consulting are major parts of my workload these days.

At the same time I worked to create systems that would allow me to get more done in less time. Batching similar tasks together, figuring out more efficient ways of dealing with client requests and paperwork, etc. I knocked my weekly hours down from 80-100 to the current level of 4-8 and make about the same amount of money as I did previously. Traveling wouldn’t be much fun if I had no time to enjoy the places I move to!

I also streamlined socially, hanging out with some friends less and spending more time focusing on the ones with which I had a more balanced relationship (a more equal exchange of value, so to speak).

Finally, I sold everything I owned that wouldn’t fit into a carry-on bag. This significantly reduced the amount of ‘stuff’ I had to worry about and store, and gave me a nice chunk of starting out money to pay for the initial plane tickets and such.

The keyword here is optimization; in your work, in your life and in your possessions, if you want o do something like this it’s really a good idea to make sure you aren’t carrying any more than you need to (literally and figuratively).

Oscar: Can you offer some advices to those who wants to do develop a lifestyle similar to your?

Colin: Know what you want before you invest yourself too deeply into a project.

Don’t worry when other people tell you you’re being foolish; keep the advice in mind – there might be some gems from time to time – but generally just KNOW that them not being able to do it doesn’t mean that you can’t.

If you really want it, dedicate yourself to it until you achieve it and set a firm deadline. I gave myself 4 months from the moment I conceived the Exile Lifestyle plan until I left the country…a very firm deadline that was difficult to meet, but I did it because I had to. In that time I did little but focus on the next step and if I hadn’t, I doubt the transition would have gone so smoothly.

Figure out how you will make money. I know a few people who do really well just traveling around, picking up work where and when they can, living from paycheck to paycheck. I personally have a much better time traveling with more consistent money coming in (because I have an established business with a good reputation already). If you don’t know how you will make money, I would recommend getting something set up first, because once you leave you won’t want to focus on the misery that setting up a new business can be with so much new and exciting activity going on around you.

Be good to people. It seems like a really simple concept, but it’s amazing how many people aren’t. Give of yourself and others will do the same, and generally what you get back will be of greater value than the total of what you put out. I don’t know exactly how the math works, but in practice it certainly does. Don’t take advantage of others, don’t treat people like trash, don’t stab people in the back. Don’t be a dick.

Oscar: Who are/were your mentors? What books/tapes changed your life?

Colin: Ah, this is tricky, because I’ve never really had an official mentor.

I definitely learned a whole lot from my parents, who between them have a combination of creative and analytical chops, and both have great people and leadership skills.

I’ve had a series of employers that I’ve learned quite a bit from (some taught me how to run a business, and some taught me how NOT to run a business).

I read a whole heck of a lot of books. I’m constantly reading. 6-8 books a month, sometimes more. I’m working my way through the Personal MBA at the moment, and most of the books from that list are super-valuable. I’ve learned a lot from Seth Godin, Malcolm Gladwell, Jared Diamond and Dr. Seuss, all about different topics.

My personal philosophies are also very important to me, and more than most Atlas Shrugged and The Fountainhead by Ayn Rand have really influenced my personal philosophies.

Writings by Stoics have also been valuable.

Talking to random people about random things; I’ve probably learned more from this than any book or philosopher.

Oscar: Thanks Colin for the interview. I wish you all the best for your and your business.

Colin: Thanks Oscar, same to you and your readers!

Posted on January 14 2010

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  1. January 14 2010 at 18:16

    Very cool interview. Sounds like Colin lives a pretty awesome lifestyle. Hopefully my stoked for life journey of traveling the world and surfing will begin soon.
    .-= Srinivas Rao´s last blog ..It’s Always for the Best: The Opportunity in Adversity =-.

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    • AvatarOscar Says:
      January 15 2010 at 08:02

      Hey Srinivas, yes Colin is a cool guy. I wish you all the best for your own adventures :)

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  2. AvatarNate Says:
    January 14 2010 at 18:39

    Great interview! I’m a big fan of Colin. It’s neat to get a view into how he operates and gets to live the way he does.

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  3. January 14 2010 at 18:49

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  5. AvatarAlan Says:
    January 14 2010 at 21:30

    Great interview, Oscar. Colin’s doing what a lot of us wish we were doing, but don’t let him fool you. He’s worked his butt off to be able to travel so fluidly! Good work, Colin!

    Alan

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    • AvatarOscar Says:
      January 15 2010 at 08:04

      Hey Alan, yes definitely! He applied the 80/20 rule to his clients and projects, but it’s still amazing how he’s able to work only 4 hours per week!

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  6. January 14 2010 at 22:44

    Both Colin and Sean Ogle are doing some absolutely fantastic things and I’m glad to see you got this interview with him. It’s amazing that he’s had 5 businesses already and is now traveling the world and running it from any location he likes.

    4-8 hours work a week literally is the dream for most people and I think everyone should subscribe to Colin’s blog and learn for themselves just how easy it actually is to up sticks and move to a new country. Personally, my dream is more to do with spending time with my soon to be born daughter, but once she’s old enough to walk and talk I definitely want to travel, live in new and exotic places and see the world.

    Colin is showing people how to do that. Thanks Colin, and big thanks to Oscar for asking the hard hitting questions! ;)
    .-= Ian Nuttall´s last blog ..How to Write a Blog Post in 5 Minutes or Less =-.

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    • AvatarOscar Says:
      January 15 2010 at 08:09

      DIdn’t know you were about to become father, congrats! Yes I think you should definitely spend some time with your daughter, and maybe then you could visit the world with your family :)

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      • January 15 2010 at 08:26

        Thanks Oscar. I’m scared/happy/nervous/excited all at once! It’s a very strange feeling but it’s brilliant!

        That’s the plan eventually. We’ll probably keep our roots in the UK but I definitely want to travel a lot and see the world. Maybe I’ll end up in your neck of the woods and you can buy me a beer? ;)
        .-= Ian Nuttall´s last blog ..How to Write a Blog Post in 5 Minutes or Less =-.

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        • AvatarOscar Says:
          January 15 2010 at 08:32

          Of course ;) But I warn you I no longer drink alcohol :D

          • January 15 2010 at 08:49

            No worries. I love ordering tap water in a bar because they can’t charge you for it! Really annoys them.

            And just to clarify, I’m not a lush or a drunk! I rarely have more than two bottles in a night, and never more than twice a week. :D
            .-= Ian Nuttall´s last blog ..How to Write a Blog Post in 5 Minutes or Less =-.

  7. January 15 2010 at 04:20

    Colin’s approach to lifestyle design is quite an inspiration. I was really stunned when I first stumbled upon his site some time ago. Thanks for this interview, Oscar!
    .-= Fabian | The Friendly Anarchist´s last blog ..How low can you go? =-.

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    • AvatarOscar Says:
      January 15 2010 at 08:10

      I stumbled across his site only recently, but I immediately liked his story.

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      • January 15 2010 at 08:28

        You should definitely both check out http://www.seanogle.com too! His video that he just posted is called Improve Your Life in Just One Easy Step and it’s awesome! Really passionate and you can tell the guy really cares.

        He compliments what Colin is doing really well.
        .-= Ian Nuttall´s last blog ..How to Write a Blog Post in 5 Minutes or Less =-.

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        • AvatarOscar Says:
          January 15 2010 at 08:38

          Thanks Ian!

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  9. AvatarChris Says:
    January 15 2010 at 07:23

    Colin is a really interesting person. And he is so very cute too!

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  10. AvatarJen Says:
    January 15 2010 at 08:50

    Really good interview Colin and Oscar. Some great wisdom in here guys – thank you. :)
    Jen

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  11. January 15 2010 at 09:38

    Nice interview, Oscar and Colin.
    I agree with Colin when he says that when you’re traveling, just chatting with people from different parts of the world can be very illuminating. I’ve learned more from people while living abroad than from all my education put together.
    .-= Gordie – Lifestyle Design For You´s last blog ..Why Haven’t You Achieved Your Biggest Goal Yet? =-.

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  12. January 15 2010 at 12:41

    Cool interview Oscar!
    Colin is a good guy and he is bound to become very successful! All the best to both of you and have a great weekend!
    .-= Diggy-Upgradereality.com´s last blog ..I Ran My Own Supermarket and Here Is What I Learnt =-.

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  13. January 15 2010 at 18:30

    Great interview, Oscar!!

    You are a complete inspiration, Colin!! I was really interested to know that you’re influenced by Ayn Rand’s The Fountainhead. That’s been an important book for me too!

    Thanks to both of you for putting your stuff out there.
    .-= Christine Livingston´s last blog ..Lost heart with your current job? Don’t rush to escape =-.

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  14. January 16 2010 at 20:07

    Hi Oscar.

    I like where Colin said “It took a whole lot of rearranging and sacrifices!”. It sure does take a lot of that to get to where we want to be. We have to realize that we have to give up something to get something else, but if it the “something else” is what we desire, it is okay.

    “Don’t worry when other people tell you you’re being foolish” is also a great tidbit. Some folks give up on something when just one person tells them it isn’t a good idea, when the other person could just be having a bad day, or might not see what they see.

    Good attitude and glad to read.
    .-= Armen Shirvanian´s last blog ..Shake Good Memories Before They Harden =-.

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  15. January 18 2010 at 06:33

    Awesome interview. Now where are the lifestyle designers who aren’t vagabonds? I am noticing a consistent trend of people who want to own 5 things and live in 3rd world countries. I love to travel, but personally, it’s a great feeling coming HOME.

    He did offer some really insightful info though about really setting your sights on your vision with a tangible outcome and deadline. That’s essential. And it worked for him.

    A lot of people say they want to get free, make money on the internet and be rich, but never define the real goals and purpose behind what it is they really want.

    Loved it.

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    • AvatarOscar Says:
      January 18 2010 at 06:53

      Hey Mike, glad you liked the interview. I guess the travel 3d world country is not required, what is required is that you do what you love.

      Oscar

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  16. January 21 2010 at 19:43

    Wow, finally able to make it over here and check on the comments (stuck in Lima due to a bus strike at the moment…Internet is lacking at best, non-existent at worst) and I’m thrilled to get so much great feedback. Thanks for the kind words, folks!

    And thanks Oscar for interviewing me! Always great to be able to converse with another blogger’s audience, and you certainly have a really solid (and good-looking) one!
    .-= Colin Wright´s last blog ..But Seriously Guys, This Bus Is Really Bad =-.

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