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I'm Joining the Power of Less

I’m finally making this public. I want to do less. And do it well.

I have been highly influenced by Leo Balbuta since he started his blog a few years ago to live a more simple life. He has written a wonderful book on the power of doing less which has helped me tremendously in a number of times.

I said a number of times because I have always reverted back to the original state after a while, mostly because I always felt the necessity to try the next big thing without completing what I already started.

Some examples of bad habits that contributed to my mental fog and mental clutter are:


  • Starting too many projects at once.

  • Ordering 30 books from amazon without knowing if I’d ever have the time and interest to read them all.

  • Reading 4 books at time.

  • Accumulating unuseful stuff, both physically and mentally.

You get the idea. Naturally, everyone who looks at that list would say that it’s impossible to get anything done adopting that mental aptitude, but for some reasons I still did all of them many time in my life.

I have learned the hard way that doing many things at once it’s not being more productive. On the contrary, if I want to get anything done I have to focus on that thing exclusively without distractions. That’s the only way for me, and it’s probably the same for everyone else.

It has taken a full year for me to realize this, and I’ve been doing many tests on myself to see if this theory of doing less holds, or if it was only an excuse for some to procrastinate.

To my big surprise, I’ve found that 80% of my procrastination happens when I’m trying to do more than one thing at once, and that’s why I decided to change.

The change

I feel now to be mature enough to join the power of less philosophy, and this is what I’m going to do to make it happen:


  • Uncluttering my desktops setup. This includes my macbook and iMac. I’ve found to have too many distractions on my current desktop setup to get anything done. I have already followed some tips described here for a more minimalist mac setup. I still have to trash unused documents and files, and un-listened music and something else.

  • Uncluttering my room. I have already started  doing this in the previous months. Basically I would like to work in a room with no distractions. Like with my computers, if the room where I’m working is full with stuff, my eyes can get easily distracted. This happens at the subconscious level and it may be difficult to notice at first, but I think it’s a big improvement.

  • Concluding or getting rid of some of my projects. I have a list of projects where I’m currently working on. Most of them are not relevant to me anymore, so I find myself procrastinating on them instead of completing them. I want to get rid of everything possible and concentrate on the few that are providing the highest benefits and returns.

  • Listing any open loop. Ironically, the pile of five books under my bedside is still an open loop in my head, even if I lost the interest to read them. Same thing for an old stock of stuff I should have sold many years ago. I want to list all that stuff and close any open loop I have, or at least I’ll try to.

This list is simple, yet it requires a lot of constant work on my part.

Once I will have reached a sort of balance in my life, I will probably focus on something else. Until then, that’s what I want to do.

Posted on September 28 2009

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  1. AvatarNate Says:
    September 28 2009 at 15:44

    Looks like you’re on the right track, Oscar. I simplified my life a little while back and it’s made a huge difference in my life. I’m much happier, less stressed out, and I hardly worry about anything. For me specifically it came down to having less stuff. I’ve gotten rid of a lot of my old stuff and it has taken a huge burden off my shoulders. Great post!

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  2. September 28 2009 at 16:45

    Mate, once you have got through a book, make a decision. Either keep it, but only if it’s really good and you can use it for reference purposes or just give it away to someone else. I find I do that now with most books I read. I take notes from them and once finished, I just give them away. Hope this helps.

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    • AvatarOscar Says:
      September 28 2009 at 17:08

      Hey Gordie, that’s something interesting, I’ll try it with the next ones.

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  3. AvatarValerie M Says:
    September 28 2009 at 18:23

    Wow you sound a lot like me. I’m in the middle of about 7 or 8 different books at the same time, 7-10 books waiting to be read, and I have about 150 books on my wish list. And that’s just the book part of my problem. I also like the link you provided for uncluttering your Mac. The very thing that I love about my Mac makes the desktop gets so cluttered.

    Anyway, I’m really looking forward to your future updates on your new minimalist lifestyle. I’ll also be taking up a similar transition of my own!

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    • AvatarOscar Says:
      September 28 2009 at 18:41

      Hey Valerie, thanks for dropping by. It’s not an intelligent idea to read 8 books at the same time, at least for me :)

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  4. September 28 2009 at 19:01

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  5. September 28 2009 at 19:05

    Hey, you’re decluttering!

    Is your twitter app staying on your list? I hoping to see how that went.

    I only read one book at a time, but I do strain on the number of projects (hence my ten day old latest post, but the next one’s pretty big :))

    Decluttering might be a good idea, but it might not. Why not take the time to do it all, and not over-anticipate completion, which may be why you are frustrated with having too many projects in the pipes?

    If you keep them all tracked, even if some fall behind, the good part is sooner or later they all end up done. Maybe you shouldn’t compromise.

    But that’s for you to determine. Whatever you do I hope to see it soon :)

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    • AvatarOscar Says:
      September 28 2009 at 20:41

      Hey Charles, for me decluttering is more doing one thing at a time, rather than excluding projects. That said I have a number of projects where I’ve lost my interest and I thought it’s a good idea to get rid of them.

      Regarding the twitter application, it’s ready. I’ll send you an email about it, but it’s basically a command line app, built for programmers.

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  6. AvatarKarlil Says:
    September 28 2009 at 22:14

    I certainly agree with Nate on his opinion. Multitasking is bad and I’m glad you decided to get rid of some of your projects and focus on what’s important for you now instead. I can already see an increase in the quality of your articles, to be honest. Looking forward to your next post buddy. Keep up the good work.

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    • AvatarOscar Says:
      September 28 2009 at 23:04

      Thank you for your support Karlil! This blog is indeed one of the major projects I have right now and one where I want to put a lot of resources.

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  7. September 29 2009 at 05:19

    I’m definitely guilty of a cluttered life. The hard part is figuring out where to start. I think it can be harder, too, if you’re married – because two people need to agree on some decisions before implementing them.

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    • AvatarOscar Says:
      September 29 2009 at 07:51

      Hey Evan. I think a good start would for things you are using exclusively. You can also try to talk with your wife about this, they usually like order more than us.

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  8. September 29 2009 at 10:36

    Hey Oscar, It’s nice to see your blog doing so well, It’s looking great and you seem to have a lot more visitors! Keep it up!

    As for the less is more, I totally agree!I am way too guilty of working on 10 projects at the same time and not finishing any of them, and reading 4 books but stopping half way through.

    I wanna do the same and target focus on single projects, one at a time!

    Thanks
    D

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    • AvatarOscar Says:
      September 29 2009 at 12:34

      Hey Diggy, yes this blog is finally growing, I hope to provide more quality content in the future. Thanks for your feedback.

      Oscar

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  9. AvatarWalter Says:
    September 30 2009 at 07:08

    That’s a nice development for you Oscar. I still can’t imagine how you manage to read four books at a time. :-) Anyway, I have also realized the power of less as I go on my everyday endeavors. That truth is I always feel that I’m running out of time, and so I’m always in a rush. Never did I realize the irony that I’m accomplishing less.

    Now I’m on a path you are following. Less yet more focused and effective. :-)

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    • AvatarOscar Says:
      September 30 2009 at 07:12

      Hey Walter, nice to see you are doing the same thing, and thanks for dropping by.

      Oscar

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  10. AvatarTravis Says:
    September 30 2009 at 17:48

    I agree with what a lot of the posters have said, and the quality of your articles has definitely improved A LOT. Your English has also gotten superb, (which I remember was one of your major goals for this site originally) so keep up the good work! I should take some of this advice myself… I feel like I’m currently swamped in a billion and one projects (hence why I’m only able to publish a few articles a month on my blog now)

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    • AvatarOscar Says:
      September 30 2009 at 18:26

      Hey Travis, thanks for the feedback! I still need to improve a lot, but that will be done with practice.

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  11. October 01 2009 at 16:52

    Hi Oscar!
    Glad your joining the Power of Less! I’ve been a minimalist for most of my life because it simply makes me happier — my surroundings reflect my state of mind immensely.

    But, one thing I couldn’t do forever was scale down my books! I had the same problem of buying too many at once and having too many going at a time. Not only that, but I had to own them, and they had to be new. I was a true bibliophile, and proud of it! I had a truel love affair with books. They were the only thing I’ve ever collected. But I moved around a lot, and moving all those books was more work than moving the refrigerator!! I had more than a thousand! But this was sort of an identity thing, too. They were part of who I was, or so I felt.

    The summer before last I decided they had to go. I kept 100, donated 8 boxes of them to the local library, and sold the rest at a yard sale for 25 cents each. Boy, did people love buying them! Then I thought, why did I spend all this money on them? Why didn’t I ever buy books at yard sales, too? Or used on Amazon?

    Anyway, I love clean, empty space on my bookshelves now. I have candles and a few various items on the shelves where the books were so jam packed you couldn’t squeeze another in. The stacks and piles that couldn’t make the bookshelves are gone. Though it was tough to let them all go, I don’t regret it. I knew I was doing the right thing.

    I still love books, but I don’t have to collect them anymore. I read one at a time and usually get them used. Then I sell them or give them away. And if they’re a keeper, well then, I try to make some space for them, but it’s not so bad, because now I have plenty!

    I do think less is more, and less is easier, too.

    There’s a Native American saying that you should never own more than you can carry on your back. This appeals to me, but I don’t know if I could get that far with it. I do think, though, that now, without the all the books, I can probably fit everything I own in the trunk of my car. And that’s good enough for me! :)

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    • AvatarOscar Says:
      October 01 2009 at 18:14

      Hey Miche, wow amazing story! I don’t have 1000 books yet but I don’t want to wait till that point. I would like to get rid of my used books but what’s holding me back is that I live in a country where English is not known by many, so it would be difficult to sold them without actually loosing time and money. I’m still trying to figure out what to do though. Thanks again for your comment!

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  12. AvatarVincent Says:
    October 01 2009 at 17:48

    I used to have the bad habit of starting too much project and I would say that it isn’t the most efficient things to do. One thing at a time is the way to go but we need to overcome our urge to do more and more.

    Cheers,
    Vincent

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    • AvatarOscar Says:
      October 01 2009 at 18:16

      Hey Vincent, exactly! That’s what I’m trying to do and something that’s really helping me is getting rid of ‘garbage’ that’s on my mind.

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  13. October 02 2009 at 08:50

    I also have a problem with too many projects.
    Real success requires a singular focus. Doing more than one thing is more interesting but dedication and sacrifice truly are necessary if you want to be great at something. Focus on the ONE.

    Now if only I could follow my own advice.

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    • AvatarOscar Says:
      October 02 2009 at 10:41

      Hey John, thanks for the comment. Yes sometimes it’s difficult to follow our own advices, but don’t give up!

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