Have you ever wondered why certain people succeed several times while others seems to fail project after project? I’ve always wanted to know what makes the difference from successful vs unsuccessful people. When I was young, when someone asked me what I wanted to do when I grew up, I always responded with I want to become a millionaire. Eventually when grew up I realized that life is different from what I thought initially, and becoming a millionaire is not a job you can find on the news paper and there are certainly other things more important than having a million dollars in the bank. But that’s not a valid excuse to stop following a dream and that’s why I started to study how other people can build successful lives.
I’m sure that if you are reading this, chances are that you already know about the importance of failing several times, learning for mistakes, etc, so I’ll try to not bother you with these kind of informations, instead I want to focus on persistence. Persistence is the ability to stick with something for a long enough period of time.
Unfortunately mass media and advertisers makes us believe that successful projects are built overnight, which is not true. The problem is that we are affected by this mentality in everything we do. Want a proof? Remember when you started a diet and you interrupted it after a month? Or when you started to work on that cool project that should have made you rich that is now a remote document on you hard disk? I’m sure you can come up with more examples. Now, wouldn’t it be nice to understand why you always gave up on those occasions?
The answer is simple: when you started your project, you were full of good intentions, you knew that by following your program you would have realized your goal, but after a month or two, after the initial motivation started to drop, you were telling yourself that the program maybe was not working for you, and you’d better try something else instead. Eventually, story repeated itself with all the other projects.
I hope that by now you already see how much we are affected by the overnight success philosophy.
So how can you build a successful project? First, realize that you need a long enough period of time. Be realistic, successful bloggers starts to see substantial results after months or even years of consistent work, diets work over a long period of time because your body need to detoxicate first from the years of junk food you ate. Virtually any project or profession have a certain period of time that separates wannabes from professionals. Decide in advance if you are willing to pay the price to become successful before wasting hundred of hours in something you don’t like to do.
It is crucial that once you encounter the phase where results are stalled, you aggressively push yourself and your project ahead by inventing new marketing techniques or by improving your product. This can dramatically reduce the amount of time required for you project to be profitable. When you’ll have overcome this phase, results will be ten times better than the amount of resources you previously allocated, so don’t be afraid of working too much.
Week after week track the results of what you are doing. Keep what’s working and discard what’s wasting you energy and time. At the same time study how other businesses in your niche who already succeeded are doing and try to imitate them. It’s essential that you study people who already made it if you want to see results.
What about already successful projects? If you are lucky that your project grew to the point that it is now paying his huge dividends, continue to improve it aggressively. You don’t want other people to imitate you in a short period of time. Continue to give it the best of you and eventually you’ll reach another point where your project will pay you another ten times better than it is now.
Posted on July 18 2009
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hey great advice here. i agree with you. it is important 2 keep track of the projects and discard what’s wasting time / effort / energy. crucial 2 see how others doing and learn from them – we live in knowledge society – need to keep track of your environment as well. devil is in the detail tho…
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Hey Nilesh, I read somewhere a long time ago that copying from others who are doing as we are doing or a bit over is ineffective. If we want to grow we have to copy those who are doing 10 times better than us.
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Great article Oscar.
I have failed with countless different projects I have attempted over the past few years, but learnt in the past few months that persistence is key and your article backs that up. I now have around 3 different projects on the go, and whilst none of them are not really flourishing into what I want right now, I am sticking with them anyway, and putting work into them whenever I get the chance.
I find it is quite easy to become demotivated and that’s when the problems start to arise, I think we just need to keep focusing on the larger goal at hand through those times and just strive through it, eventually I get my motivation back and strive on with the work.
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Hey Howie, you are doing the right thing as long as you enjoy those projects. For example I enjoy blogging so I’m happy when I’m doing it. There will be downs and highs for sure, but persistence is the key.
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Oscar, good stuff! I agree tracking yourself is crucial. When you make yourself accountable, your results are much higher. Also, a lot of people move from project to project because it’s safer than sticking one out. They keeps saying “oh, it wasn’t really me”… . I read a good quote once: “Action breeds clarity!”
Thahks for the great article!!!
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Hey Brian, thanks for stopping by! It’s easy to go from project to project but making a goal is not easy so it requires pushing ourselves out of the comfort zone.
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Hi Oscar. This is the way I view it. We all live within our own individual realities. In our realities, we eat, sleep, work, and play a certain way. If, for some reason, we are unhappy with our reality, it is NEVER too late to start manifesting a new reality. If you are at point A, and you need to get to point B, then you can take the first step today. Maybe other people are trying to get to point B, and they have more spare time than you? That doesn’t mean that you can’t make a concerned effort to get there! If it’s worth daydreaming about, then it’s worth working on.
This can apply to anything. If you want to have a million dollars, then you can go out and try to make a dollar tomorrow. The next day, try to turn that dollar into 2 dollars. Then into 5 dollars, and 10, and on and on. You can do this without quitting your job, or you can quit your job, and try to speed the process up. Either way, you are manifesting a new, alternate reality for yourself.
But you’re right, it’s not going to happen overnight. That’s not the way it works in the real world.
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Hi Trey, you are right, it’s never too late to start doing something we like. Thanks for stopping by :)
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Great article Oscar! I think persistence is a vital part of success and it is also one of the hardest things to master.
I love this quote from Paul J. Meyer,
“One more time!” That is how many times you must get up after someone knocks you down, criticizes, or attacks you. Refuse to stay down, and enter the game of life even more enthusiastically than before."
I think about that every time things get tough in life or business, the persistence factor is key.
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Hey Ralph, great quote! Thanks for the contribution.
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You got it right on. I also think that part of it is that in the beginning, projects are new and exciting. When the newness wears off, that’s when it takes dedication. As you pointed out, “Decide in advance if you are willing to pay the price to become successful before wasting hundred of hours in something you don’t like to do.” If you make a careful and honest evaluation at the start, you’re more likely to stick with it.
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Hey Evan, dedication is easy to gain if you know for sure that your project will be a success. In my opinion almost evert project have the potential to become a success after a certain period of time. I know this statement is not always true but you got the point. Thanks for stopping by.
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Thanks for this post. It reminded me that one of the reasons being an entrepreneur is so great is that it allows me to experiment with a lot of different ways of getting my message out. I haven’t found the “magic formula” for doing this yet, but the experimentation is part of the fun.
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hey Chris, thanks for stopping by. Experimenting is important and we should do it o every possible occasion to stretch ourselves and our ideas.
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Hi Oscar
Great information, I like that you pointed out that a successful project doesn’t just happened over night. It is so important for everyone to remember.
Thanks for sharing.
Giovanna Garcia
Imperfect Action is better than No Action
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Hey Giovanna, thanks for stopping by. I’m still hoping for an overnight success at some point in the future. But even if it will come, it will have already taken some years ;)
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Sweet post oscar, Im actually just working on a post about delayed gratification. Result only come after long periods of time with consistant effort.
Of course there are excpetions but you can’t expect yourself to be the lucky exception (winning a lottery, inheritace, perfect idea, right place right time) but with hard work and some common sense you can achieve a lot!
Just dont give up, keep that dream!
Diggy
Upgradereality
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Hey Diggy, can’t wait to read your post. Thanks for commenting.
Oscar
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I think one of the best ways for building a successful project (or any project for that matter) is drawing upon your past failures. Instead of looking at past failures as exactly that, “failures,” look at them as guidance tools. They transformed you into what you are today, and for that you should be thankful to have them.
I know with projects, especially in college, that even a failure is still a transition towards success, as the more failures you incur, the closer to success you become.
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There’s a famous quote that says: “If you want to increase your success rate, double your failure rate”. Thanks for the comment Travis.
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I have a lot of projects going on. They’re all fun, until I get stuck and can’t seem to make it go any further. That is the point of having more than one, even many. If one gets stuck, switching to another resets the creative process.
Keeping track of each one ensures not forgetting any. I stay on the lookout for new ideas and energy to take each project one step further.
Life isn’t all work, though. Don’t forget to play!
Sorry for the late comment, I didn’t know your site on July 18th. I think I’ll go and fail some more now :)
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