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10 Thirty-Day Challenges That Nobody Wants to Take

A week ago I asked my friends on Facebook about the craziest thirty-day challenges, and I got quite a few interesting ideas. I’m posting them here today, along with my own contributions.

These are all challenges that you won’t usually think about, yet some of them can be very powerful. I personally want to try some in the near future.

If you want to give them a shot as well, I’d love to hear about your experience, and I’d offer you a spot here to share it if you don’t have a blog.

Enough talk for now, below are 10 thirty-day challenges that nobody wants to take:

  1. No smoking, coffee or alcohol. This is only valid if you currently smoke or drink. I know that you’d never do this if you are a smoker, but come one, it’s only for 30 days, after that you can smoke again, and this would be the perfect opportunity to show everyone that you can quit anytime you want (right?). Not drinking alcohol is easier, but still challenging, especially if you hang out in clubs with friends who like to drink. I personally neither drink nor smoke, even tough I did both for many years, and guess what? I can still hang around with my friends and have fun.
  2. No television. If you watch 2 hours of television per day in the evening, that adds up to 60 hours per month in front of a box. A nice challenge would be to avoid television for one month, and perhaps to use that time for reading books.
  3. No computer and internet. A bit more drastic than the previous one. If I’d stop using the computer now, I’d lose all my clients in three days. Indeed I rely on the internet for working everyday (like many of you do). Still, it would be nice to try this challenge, or at least to minimize the amount you spend online per day. If you want to go the extra mile, you could also get rid of your cellphone and other electronics.
  4. No sex, porn or masturbation. Seriously, I have no idea of what would happen with this. Perhaps we would get a lot of energy and feel better, but I can’t say because I never tried.
  5. Raw diet. If you’re already eating a raw diet, you may laugh at this, but for the rest of us adopting a raw diet for thirty days would be really challenging. Make sure to do some research first if you want to try this, as changing your diet is always a challenge for your body.
  6. Socialize with 5 new people a day. A good way to fight shyness would be to meet and talk with 5 different people every day, preferably of the opposite sex. It will be hard at the beginning, but you’ll become more confident.
  7. Yoga. I’ve never tried yoga, but a friend told me that she’s taking a 30 days challenge of 60-100 minutes of yoga classes every day, and that it’s really challenging.
  8. Polyphasic sleep. I don’t know if 30 days would be enough, but polyphasic sleep is another interesting thing to try. There are many kinds of polyphasic schedules too choose from, the most extreme being of taking only 6 20-minutes naps per day (without any other sleep). Steve Pavlina has tried this in the past with success.
  9. Becoming an optimist. This can be really fun. Every morning and every night before going to sleep, list 10 reasons why your day has been awesome.
  10. Find a way to make extra money every day. You’ll probably not become rich by doing this but.. it’s wort a try. Do something every day that will make you some money, like listing something on Ebay, running errands for someone else or making a website. How much you earn is not important as long as you make something. Here are 43 make money ideas to get you started
  11. What do you think of these challenges? I’d love to hear your experiences, as well as other ideas you may have.

    Posted on May 19 2010

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  1. AvatarDiggy Says:
    May 19 2010 at 18:23

    Hey Oscar!

    Cool post, I want to do the 30 day raw food challenge.
    I’ve never done it but Ive heard so many good benefits that come from it. One day soon :)

    Cheers!

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  2. AvatarCharan Says:
    May 19 2010 at 18:29

    Hey good post! I got the book yesterday..Thanks a lot.I like the 6th point. Its very difficult to meet new people especially if you are a beginner in socializing.

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  3. AvatarStefan Says:
    May 19 2010 at 18:40

    Personally I would love to try the “Yes Man”-challenge. Hopefully I will be able to try it this summer.

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  4. AvatarFarnoosh Says:
    May 19 2010 at 18:44

    Yes, my yoga challenge made the list!! And now I have others to try too. The other one I am doing at the same time, Oscar, is daily meditation (on top of yoga) and the early rising which you know about….I am at 70-80% daily 4:30am :)!! Yes yes yes! Life is grand. Great list!

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  5. AvatarDarby O'Connor Says:
    May 19 2010 at 23:18

    Interesting list.
    No smoking, alcohol, coffee for 30 days – sounds like rehab (especially coffee for me)

    No television – done that – very liberating and hard to go back to the noise. I can see where some need rehab though.

    No computer-internet – a bit unrealistic in the 21st century given work requirements. It would be interesting because internet is noisier than TV in some respects.

    Okay a big no on number 4.

    Raw Food – My first try at the 30 days resulted in me lasting for 12. I found out my mentor in this area finished only 3 days on his first attempt. I was ruined by a potluck. As they say, if you do not want to slip, don’t go where it’s slippery. Yes, education is alot in this area.

    Socialise with 5 people – I can’t wait to take this one on. This can have an interesting impact. Very challenging.

    Yoga – that’s interesting too. I should do this one first. I won’t because the one above is more exciting to me

    Polyphasic Sleep – I need to try this one so I have time to do the other 30 day trials. Plus it would be interesting to see how the world is when everyone else is asleep. From what I hear, 30 days is sufficient to get you going forward, but the socialisation pressure is such that you will return to monophasic within 4 – 5 months.

    Becoming an optimist – I think this has the greatest impact of all and most challenging given most people’s social settings (so maybe meet and socialise with 5 optimists a day)

    Find a way to make money everyday – A great idea. Tony Robbins had a challenge of finding 3 ideas per day for the next 10 days (30 ideas) but youll have 90 ideas and it only takes one!

    Now my new 30 day challenge – shorter comments! :)

    I find half of these exciting and challenging. Is that wierd?

    -Darby

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  6. AvatarCali Says:
    May 20 2010 at 00:01

    Wow, I love the idea; some of the challenges appeal to me. What I would definitely try is challenge 9, becoming an optimist going hand in hand with meditation.
    About use of internet: my challenge is to check my personal email just twice per day (for 30 days) and facebook on Monday only (actually I wanted to stop using it for a few weeks, however I need to know my friends’ birthdays so once per week for a few minutes is just ok).
    What else … yes, work out, at least one hour per day. For quitting something (I have already quit ciggies and alcohol) I will choose sugar (with one exception – some dark chocolate from time to time; (it is packed with anti-oxidants). And I know from now the next thing I will give up: fried food – will only use tiny amounts of sesame oil for stir-fries and olive oil for salads – we do need a certain amount of oil for the health of our skin!
    OK, this is a pretty long message – thanks for reading and I will let you know in 30 days about my progress :) xx

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  7. May 20 2010 at 06:26

    Oscar!

    “No sex, porn or masturbation. Seriously, I have no idea of what would happen with this. Perhaps we would get a lot of energy and feel better, but I can’t say because I never tried.”

    Ha ha you used my suggestion! Yesssss!! I can sleep a happy man tonight.

    Cheers!

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  8. Avatarfarouk Says:
    May 20 2010 at 08:49

    that’s a nice post Oscar :)
    i believe if someone did all 10 he would be in a perfect state, my problem is that i cannot stop using the internet, that’s where i blog :D

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  9. AvatarLuis Says:
    May 20 2010 at 09:08

    I´ve tried number 4 (except sex with my wife)for a couple of years and itś possible and am very happy with it. I was surpraised that you put it in your list. Congratulations

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  10. Avatarlakshmi Says:
    May 20 2010 at 10:43

    Hmmmm you dint select mine. May be i misunderstood it. I thot it was more like some unusual things to do for thirty days. Well. The human mind is very powerful. I feel that once we decide to do something we can. If it can be done ,it can be done by anyone. May be the effort and time required may differ but ultimately nothing is impossible.

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    • May 20 2010 at 11:38

      Hey, I didn’t because I didn’t understand how to do it. I also left a comment on fb about it.

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      • Avatarlakshmi Says:
        May 20 2010 at 12:41

        i had responded to that :( well you should do it anyway. In india we cant do such things. As a young chap in italy you can. Just ensure it doesnt belong t a mafiaso:) lol so wat are you gonna take up actualy ?

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  11. AvatarMandy Says:
    May 20 2010 at 16:12

    Hi Oscar, really interesting post and inspiring.

    I think I may take the no 7 challenge YOGA as June is coming with exactly 30 days a month! Because I’ve been wanted to practice yoga for a long time, but I will do it at home watching Yoga for Dummies video :)

    And point 3, it’s really really hard, even I can get rid of computer, I could still online with my cell phone unless it’s broken…!

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  12. May 20 2010 at 21:58

    YES! Make more people join me in polyphasic sleeping!

    I’ve done 7/10 of the things on your list.

    1, 2, 5, 6, 8, 9, 10

    …So I’m pretty proud of myself of course. =)

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  13. May 21 2010 at 20:22

    I think a lot of the challenges are not really needed. The purpose is to establish balance not go to other extreme. Once i have finished my designated work for the day, i should indulge myself into thing i like even watching sitcom, some of them are just brilliant and as significant as Picasso’s painting or Tolstoy’s novel. When there was no paper they chanted, when there was paper they wrote and we have television so we show.

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    • May 22 2010 at 00:06

      Good point. These are indeed something a bit extreme, but something you must take. I have not tried all of them but some of them are something I already do, still we are all different (thankfully).

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  14. June 02 2010 at 12:12

    I’m going to take up Polyphasic Sleep. Clicky my name to see the blogpost in which I announce my intention to, perhaps literally, become Kramer.

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  15. June 02 2010 at 12:50

    I tried a 30-day polyphasic sleep experiment a while back. I really enjoyed the weirdness and novelty of it, although it was tough going to start with.

    Also tried no caffeine or alcohol for a month, and got bad headaches to start with, but felt good at the end. Hardest part is when out at the pubs and clubs….people REALLY take offence to the fact that you don’t drink (at least here in the UK they do). They buy me drinks and get on my back literally all night about it. But I resisted. Although, after 30 days and 1 second (literally just after midnight when the challenge ended), I cracked open a beer!!

    Some cool ideas. I had a website where I used to do month-long challenges and blog about it, don’t know why I never continued with that really…

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    • June 02 2010 at 15:12

      Interesting, especially that you headaches as a result of stopping alcohol and caffeine. Fortunately I’ve never experienced that, and I drink alcohol perhaps 1 or 2 times a year during ceremonies, but I used to drink every week like every guy I guess.

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      • June 03 2010 at 10:45

        Ah I should have said, I’ve also stopped caffeine but not alcohol for a month, and got the headaches then, so it’s definitely caffeine withdrawal. I drink a lot of caffeine. Need to cut down at some point.

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  16. AvatarJovana Says:
    July 19 2010 at 16:33

    I did the whole raw thing for thirty days. I didn’t make it. Nope this girl loves healthy, but I sure do like my hot stews, cakes and pies. Nomnom. Can’t give em up! HOWEVER:

    I do have a whole list of new recipes I use when I need something quick (raw vegan food is quick to prepare, if you don’t use a dehydrator).

    Wonderful list!

    “No sex, porn or masturbation. Seriously, I have no idea of what would happen with this. Perhaps we would get a lot of energy and feel better, but I can’t say because I never tried.”

    Due to my religion, I’m Serbian Orthodox, during our fasting months we shouldn’t be doing any of these. I am still trying to implement it… it’s tough xD

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  17. AvatarDins Says:
    August 01 2010 at 20:35

    Wow, I feel like an achiever already!

    1- I don’t smoke and I don’t drink. I don’t like coffe either.

    2- I barely watch TV (maybe a show and two films a week).

    3- I’m taking this one. Time to read some paperbacks (No iBooks), write in a physical journal and use my iPhone as a phone.

    4- I’ve never had sex (I’m 15) I don’t watch porn and I don’t masturbate.

    5- I’ve talked with my parents about this one a couple times but they answered with a firm ‘no’.

    6- I already do this. It’s summer!

    7- Tried Yoga for 30 days at the beginning of the summer. It was nice, but I got bored and decided not to continue after the challenge was over.

    8- As with raw diet, my parents had the last word here. That word was ‘no’.

    9- I’m the most optimist person I know.

    10- Interesting. Will try after #3.

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    • August 02 2010 at 07:45

      You definitely are Dins!

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      • AvatarDina Says:
        August 04 2010 at 22:33

        Oh my God, I can’t believe I misspelled my own name haha!

        I’ve tried to live without the internet. I woke up and for the first time in years the first thing I did wasn’t checking my email. I thought the best way to live without the computer was to get far away from it, so I took a book and went to have breakfast to a coffee shop. When I got to the bar the guy asked me if I wanted to sign up for their club and I said it was OK. He told me to do so in the touchscreen below me. The machine would remember my preferences and email me when they had something new I may like!

        This made me realize that the integration of the internet in our everyday lives outside the computer is no longer a thing of the near-future, it’s already here! I made a list of all the things in my city that use the internet. Will blog about it soon.

        So, mission failed, but at least I got a blog post idea! :P

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